Our afternoons around here have been tremendous! It's my favorite time of day. All the boys are up and the sun is starting to go down behind our house, the breeze is constant off the river - it's all amazing.
Andrew is loving the sand box and all things treasure-related.
Walker sits up and watches. Content to be outside. He gets it.
It is easy to fall in to the same old thought patterns. The hustle of the days make them all feel the same and time runs together. Everything is good and simple, but i forget how blessed we really are in the mundane thought patterns of the day.
Mother's Day was a good reminder of what I have and what other's are longing for or have lost. It's sometimes easier to watch one more show with the boys, or to look at my instagram feed rather than play cars or build legos. I need to spend my time with them living well, loving always, and pouring in to them the way they pour their hearts in to me.
To approach every moment of the day with a grateful heart.
I found some information on eating Raw foods and decided to try it out for 3 days and then see where it takes me. I have heard so much about the whole30 diet and looked at it a little, but then took a tangent to raw eating and it seems simpler to me. And right now, the simpler the better for me!
I found an app called "3 day raw food cleanse" and just started today.
In order to keep myself accountable, I will share my experience here.
Breakfast - Orange, Strawberry, Banana Smoothie
- 1 orange, peeled
- 1 frozen banana, peeled
- 1 cup strawberries
- 1/2 cup water
This was nice and I didn't feel hungry until right around 12:00.
(I did cheat and have black coffee with friends mid-morning).
Lunch - Chopped Cauliflower Salad
- 3 cups cauliflower, chopped
- 1/3 cup red pepper, diced
- 1/3 cup celery, sliced
- 4 Tbsp basil, chopped
- 4 Tbsp parsley, chopped
- 3 Tbsp olive oil
- 3 Tbsp sundried tomato, diced
- 2 Tbsp Kalamata olives, diced
- 2 Tbsp lemon juice
- 2 Tsp lemon zest
- 1/2 tsp salt
- 1/2 tsp pepper
This was very labor intensive! And then they recommended putting it in the fridge for an hour before you ate it. That's a lot to ask of someone who only had a fruit smoothie for breakfast! The flavors were good and there was a lot of it. I also ate some as a snack mid afternoon.
Dinner - Raw Faux Tuna Walnut Wraps
- 1 cups walnuts
- 1 cups carrots, chopped
- 1/8 cup raw tahini
- 1 Tbsp lemon juice
- 1/2 cup celery, chopped
- 1/4 cup yellow onion, chopped
- 1 garlic clove, chopped
- 1/4 cup fresh parsley
- 1/4 cup fresh dill
- 1/8 tsp salt and pepper
- 5-8 romaine leaves
1. Combine walnuts, carrots, tahini, and lemon juice in food processor - process into rough paste.
2. Add other ingredients
3. Scoop mixture in to romaine leaves
This was REALLY good and there was extra. It feels like hummus and chicken salad. I would make this one again.
Also added 96 oz of water to my day. I never drink enough water.
Exercise: 3o minute run/walk
I haven't done very much research and look forward to learning more of the do's and don'ts of raw eating. There are conflicting reviews but most everyone lost weight which is my main motivator. As of right now I have committed to 3 days, but would like to go for 30!
When you are having multiple kids, people always tell you how different their personalities will be. I get that we are our own humans and all, but to see the differences growing up right in your face is really incredible. We have raised our boys in the same fashion, and yet they are so different.
Different is good. Different can be hard.
Birth order really does matter.
I want to remember and embrace their differences.
I want to be the best version of myself that they need.
I fear any sort of spirit-crushing that I might inadvertently be doing.
It takes time to understand each child and what they might need in each particular situation.
It takes putting down my phone.
It takes being present.
Andrew, the middle child, is just that!
He loves to get a laugh out of people, is loud in all situations, is more independent than Edward, and handles disappointment well after a failed attempt at negotiating.
He also licks his runny nose (probably because we weren't always right on it)!
My Edward. Good in all situations, boasting that he has never had a time out in the two years of preschool (unconfirmed), perfectionist, tender, and always thinking about his little brothers (parenting).
In classic first-born achiever style, Edward will try something a few times and quickly become an expert.
Walker's personality is emerging but he definitely is a social being and very adaptable to any situation.
I want to remember them in these stages together. The joys they bring each other. Their favorite things.
I want to be more consistent. To journal firsts and feelings about who we are as we are raising our family. I want them to have this record of their lives.
To memorialize the people in their lives that they may not remember they knew. The times that we got to spend with our ancestors and learn their heritage.
The simple times we were just being together.
I want to remember the times Andrew says "Can you swing me high up to the sky" and me never being able to get him high enough...
"this is not high up in the sky."
His love for Superman.
And I want to remember the vacations - like that time we took them all on a Disney Cruise...
without really thinking through how hard it might be :)
I want to be better.
I love to set goals and write tasks in my planner... but often fall short of the finish line.
The transition to three has been seamless - busy, but seamless! It's all about perspective. Bringing home our first baby was the hardest thing I have ever experienced. I can remember so much of each moment in Edward's life. Every stage recorded in my brain, monthly milestones recalled easily now, and details memorized. I didn't realize how much free time I had!
We are realistic with our expectations of each other in this season, we know our kids will grow up too quickly, and we praise God for our precious blessings!
I am thrilled to be attending the HopeSpoken conference in March 2014!
I am participating in the link-up today for the conference...
5 things for HopeSpoken: - post your picture so that we can recognize you. - introduce yourself! - something that you are little timid or nervous about for the weekend - something that you are hoping to take away from HopeSpoken - share something fun/random about yourself
My name is Mary Liz and I am a mother of three boys now! I live in a small town in the TX hill country. I love to blog and have no real talents to blog about, just my precious family. I am a registered nurse by trade and a stay at home mom by choice. I always wanted to be a famous blogger, and I have love watching Casey become so popular.
Something I am nervous about for the weekend of HopeSpoken is just being my self in front of strangers so that I can grow according to His plan while I am there.
I am attending with a few friends, and I hope to take away a deeper bond in Christ with those ladies. I am excited to see how our friendship will grow. And I would like to take away some new blog friends.
Fun facts: We added one more boy to our family since that picture was taken :) We live year round at a summer camp for girls. Casey and I were in each other's weddings!